Emma Lovell: You Need a Life List Instead of a Typical Bucket List

Designing a Life You Love: Work, Travel and Wellbeing in Balance

In a world that often celebrates constant productivity, many professionals and entrepreneurs find themselves caught in the relentless cycle of work. The expectation to always be “on” can make it feel impossible to prioritise personal wellbeing, travel or even moments of simple joy.

Yet a growing movement of thinkers, authors and business leaders are challenging this narrative. They argue that work, travel and self-care do not need to compete with one another. Instead, they can coexist to create a richer, more fulfilling life.

One emerging philosophy describes this as living “a how-to with heart” approach to success a way of designing a lifestyle that blends ambition with wellbeing.


Moving Beyond the Traditional Success Narrative

For decades, the dominant narrative around success has been clear: work harder, sacrifice more and reward yourself later.

But many people are discovering that the promised “later” often never arrives.

Small business owners, for example, frequently find themselves stuck in the daily grind of keeping their operations running. Whether managing a café, running a printing business or operating a retail shopfront, taking time away can feel almost impossible.

Even professionals working traditional nine-to-five roles face similar pressures. Career growth, financial responsibilities and family commitments can push personal wellbeing and travel further down the priority list.

The result is a lifestyle where achievement is prioritised but fulfilment is delayed.


A “How-To With Heart” Approach to Life and Work

Rather than offering rigid formulas for success, the “how-to with heart” approach encourages individuals to define what a meaningful life looks like for them personally.

This philosophy recognises that:

  • Not everyone wants to be a digital nomad
  • Not everyone can travel extensively
  • Not everyone’s lifestyle allows long breaks away

And that is perfectly acceptable.

Instead of prescribing one universal model of success, this perspective emphasises choice, flexibility and self-awareness.

Some people thrive on frequent international travel. Others find joy in smaller experiences such as weekend getaways, local exploration or discovering new places within their own communities.

The key message is simple: you get to decide the life you love.

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When Life Changes Everything

Many transformative life philosophies are shaped by personal challenges.

In some stories, a serious injury, illness or burnout becomes the turning point that forces individuals to rethink how they live and work. Experiences such as these often highlight a powerful truth: success means little if it comes at the cost of physical or emotional wellbeing.

Periods of hardship frequently lead people to rediscover the importance of self-care, balance and meaningful experiences.

Rather than viewing wellbeing as a luxury, it becomes a fundamental part of sustaining both professional success and personal happiness.


Real Stories: Case Studies of Different Paths

One of the most powerful ways to challenge limiting beliefs is through real-world examples.

Case studies show that people from many different walks of life are creating lifestyles that combine work, travel and fulfilment in ways that suit them.

Some are entrepreneurs running their own businesses while travelling intermittently.

Others maintain traditional full-time corporate jobs but prioritise travel whenever possible by carefully planning leave and remote working opportunities.

These stories demonstrate an important point: there is no single path to living well.

What matters is designing a lifestyle that reflects personal values, responsibilities and aspirations.


The Travel Mindset: It’s Not Just About Distance

A major misconception about travel is that it must involve expensive international trips or extended time away from work.

In reality, travel can also be a mindset.

Adopting a travel mindset means cultivating curiosity, exploration and appreciation for new experiences even close to home.

This could include:

  • Exploring new neighbourhoods or cultural festivals
  • Trying different cuisines or restaurants
  • Taking short weekend breaks
  • Visiting national parks or local landmarks
  • Attending community events or performances

These experiences enrich life without requiring significant time or financial commitments.

The travel mindset is about living with curiosity and intention, rather than waiting for the perfect circumstances.


A Powerful Reminder About Living Fully

Sometimes the most profound lessons about life come from moments of deep challenge.

One story shared in discussions about the travel mindset tells of a family whose young child was diagnosed with a terminal illness. Despite the enormous emotional difficulty they faced, the family chose to focus on creating meaningful experiences together.

Rather than a “bucket list”, they called it a “life list” a collection of moments to live and enjoy while they could.

From simple park visits and swings to attending sports games and family outings, they created over 200 shared experiences.

This powerful story reminds us that life is not about waiting for the perfect moment it is about living meaningfully in the present.


Redefining Success for a New Generation

Today’s leaders, entrepreneurs and professionals are increasingly redefining success.

Rather than focusing solely on financial or professional achievements, they are embracing a broader definition that includes:

  • wellbeing
  • purpose
  • meaningful experiences
  • family and community connection

This shift reflects a deeper understanding that a successful life is not measured only by productivity, but also by how fully we live and contribute to the people around us.


Celebrating Women Who Shape Communities

This broader view of success is especially important when recognising the impact of women in society.

Across Queensland’s history, women have driven change in countless ways not only through leadership and activism, but also through roles that often go unrecognised.

Women have nurtured communities through:

  • motherhood
  • caregiving
  • mentoring
  • volunteering
  • community leadership

These contributions form the social foundation that allows communities and institutions to thrive.


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We look forward to welcoming you to this moving and inspiring celebration of women’s achievements and contributions. Don’t miss this opportunity to hear from one of WA’s most influential scientific leaders, Miquela Riley.

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